Open letter to Achilles

Today on your first birthday, that as of last year became our birthday, there are so many words of love and encouragment that my heart holds for you.  I'm putting them down on paper, for you to one day read, in the hopes of somehow capturing this moment and making it last forever.

Always be kind.  This world needs more of it.  Even in the darkest moments, don't let anything or anyone dim your brightness, my little star.

Treat girls with respect.  Always hold doors open.  Randomly surprise her with flowers or her favorite candy.  Be a gentlemen like you're daddy (it is one of the reasons I fell in love with him so fast).  Take your time... you have a long way to go before you choose the woman to spend the rest of your life with and until then I am more than happy being the love of your life.

Believe in goodness.  Believe in God, in a higher power, in the belief that goodness conquers all, believe in something... I don't care what you believe in as long as you lead your life with a genuine heart driven towards goodness.

Work hard.  Papi and I will do all we can to give you all you desire, but nothing like you learning the value of hard work and being willing to put in that work to achieve your dreams.

Play hard.  Life is too short to not fully enjoy it.  Travel.  A lot.  Play sports, be adventurous.  Lead a fun, fulfilling life my little Wild One.

Stand up for yourself.  Even when everyone disagrees with your opinions, even if that includes Papi and myself, speak your mind and defend your point of view.

And always remember that my love for you has no boundaries.  Confide in me.  Ask me for advice.  Even if you disappoint me (or I disappoint you) we will talk it out and make things better because that's what love is all about.